Learn it the hard way...Baby!!!!

Have been thinking about life and people around me since last evening. Spoke to some friends and since they are mostly elder to me, so they were giving advices from their experience. What they wanted me to realise is that one is on his own in this world. No one except for parents and few VERY close friends want your welfare/benefit. Everyone is working/planning/plotting against you, be it your general friends/people at work/people around apart from work. They are with you because you are a help to them in some way else they have nothing to do with you. I think its so true, after giving a considerable thought to past few years of my life and also to what I am going through at present.

Honestly, it hurts to know that when you have done nothing wrong to those people, why would they want bad for you. But I guess thats how the world works. I have seen people changing their basic nature with time ( I agree one has to change but atleast not the basic nature pls).

This may sound like I am praising myself but I am an open book, my life is an open book. I dont know to be pretentious. I am what I am. I dont like lying. I dont like hypocrisy. I dont like to be diplomatic. Well this is what my friend had to say on this - "Adita, you will have a bright future and you will be what you are NOT right now. And I am saying this because you will learn it the hard way...baby!!!"